God sends us reminders

The other day I signed on to my computer and my main MSN News page popped up. The first article I see is about the 30 things that if ANY are happening in your relationship you need to get out ASAP. As a person who likes studying the human experience and being from a abusive marriage I thought what can I learn here. So I opened the article to read it. As I read I realized it was talking to me. So I backed it up and started writing down the things that pertained to my marriage. I was dumbstruck when I got done and close to tears. I knew God or my guides had sent this to me as a reminder of why I needed to stay strong in my decisions. I had 26 or the 30 that were immediate deal breakers in a relationship that I allowed to go on for years. Yet even though my ex-husband & I have been able to form a great friendship. I had longingly hoped to put my family back together. But two weeks ago I was attending my favorite singer in the worlds concert and texted my ex. I said you should be here with me. He said he would rather be at the dentist. He would rather be somewhere that cold cause him pain then to spend 3 hours making me happy. It was the final straw to my dream. He hasn't grown enough or I have out grown him. Maybe he was never enough. I certainly deserve someone who wants to make me happy. I am telling this all to you because not only did God or my guides put this reminder of strength in my path. But they will do the same for you. And let this be a cautionary tale. You deserve to be treated like a queen as you treat your spouse like a king. Everyone should be equally loved and respected. And if your not get out! Don't wait almost 30 years like I did. Your children wont respect you anymore for it.