Changing your life

People will tell you it is not possible to change your life, To change the very core of who you are. But especially if you have been living as others have seen you and not how you truly wish to be that is not a true statement. Its negative. And negative people either need to be left in the dust or at least have minimum contact with. Especially until you have learned to have boundaries set against people like this. We will discuss setting boundaries in the next blog. But it is completely possible to turn your life into something you have dreamed of. If you have lived with fear, depression, anxiety or anything like it. Its can takes years of work and you may need the help of trained professionals. But once you have made up your mind that your no longer going to let these types of things dictate the person you are. The most amazing things will happen. Since I personally have no longer let childhood trauma control my life the sky is bluer. The clouds are whiter and the sound of the ocean which was always my haven is even more soothing, The world becomes this place to explore not to fear. No one should have to feel they are not beautiful when they look in the mirror or fear they are not good enough for their spouse or girl/boyfriend. Or any of the other million issues we all have faced. Those that are worse the rapes, molestations or abuse by parents or spouses. The lessons we learn here are important but they don't need to dictate our happiness for our entire existence here while we live this life time. Remember we may choose to comeback and we may not so you may only have but one life to live. But even if you don't they all count.